"Selfishness + Comfort = Neglect"

How often have you been there?

How many times ladies, do you feel as if you're just home...begging for quality time from your partner? How many tv shows does he watch, so that it seems as if avoidance of you is the true goal? How many excuses does he make to get out of dates and events, where you two could potentially ensure a tighter bond together?

Fellas, how many days does it seem as if she just pushes you away while she reads a new magazine? How many times does she call her girls to go out, and leave you bored out of your mind? Nothing is wrong with doing things to make sure you're enjoying yourself, but we must never get so comfortable that we lose sight of our partner's value.

People have increased their love for technological advancement, and they've shunned the idea of lengthy, human interaction! How do you become closer to someone, if you choose not to spend ample time with them? Change must happen in the every day home! The days of eating dinner together and having necessary conversation, have almost certainly been pushed away from the concept of being the norm. If you look at your partner, and think to yourself with truth & intention, can you honestly that you act as if you value them, while knowing you obviously do in your heart?

He cleans without hesitation. She cooks for you without thinking twice. He loves the way you laugh. She adores the look you give her, when you can't help but just sit and stare...and adore her. Remember your love for them, and know that those before you (possibly) made the mistake of feeling entitled to their acts of love, which they eventually took for granted.

Be as harmless as a lamb, as wise as a serpent, and (I'll add) as intentional as a wolf!

Be blessed everyone!!