Scripture Tackles Friendly Speech

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Job 16:1-5 (NIV) says:

1. Then Job replied:

2. "I have heard many things like these; you are miserable comforters, all of you!

3. Will your long-winded speeches never end? What ails you that you keep on arguing?

4. I also could speak like you, if you were in my place; I could make fine speeches against you, and shake my head at you.

5. But my mouth would encourage you; comfort from my lips would bring you relief."

Should we consider breaking down what Job tried to reveal in this passage?

His intent was to allow readers to see how they treat the people they call, friends. Some caring speeches do have criticism, but that should be of a constructive nature. The statements and implications made by friends shouldn't degrade, embarrass, or ultimately cause a friend to reduce their self esteem. That is the work of one considered an enemy, and if "friends" are causing one to become questionable of their self worth, then that friend needs to be demoted (or cut off).

Verse 3 of the text above contains the words "ails," and "arguing," while verse 4 adds the word "against" to the mixture. The word "against" already signifies that there is opposition; that is extremely problematic. Question...do the people you care for, act more like opponents than loved ones?

To care for someone amidst their challenging circumstances, seek to improve and help them build, without discouragement and ridicule, and want nothing more than their wellbeing uplifted, whilst they seek to act and become better...is what equates to friendship. Know who your acquaintances are, who your enemies are, and of course...

who your friends are.